How can you get revenge on people who hurt you? -needyfans
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Hello friends someone itself has a negative connotation. In this article we will tell you how can you take revenge from someone who has ever hurt you. If someone has hurted you it is your boyfriend also or it can be your girlfriend also we will discuss all things about taking revenge. Friends the main thing is that whether the person is a good person or a bad person but in his life he must feel taking revenge from someone once.
Revenge can be for many reason like for property issues, for relationship issues, for bullying. To deal with all type of Revenge there is only one thing that can solve it is 'CHANGE'.
Let us understand it with an example friends you know Donald Trump, Kamla Harris, Justin Tundro or you may take Xi Zinping. Friends do you think that they don't have any person in their life who has hurted them.
Now you will say that they must have also spend the same life which you are living maybe there economic conditions are different but as a human life they also have told rated the same thing inside them which you are facing now. You may take example of Prince Philip or Queen Victoria people are also jealous of them. They are also hearted by a lot of persons on a daily basis but they Don't React as they don't care because they are already think to take revenge or waste their time on taking revenge.
You may take example of WWE wrestler Dean Ambrose as people use to say to him that he is very thin and he would not survive in WWE due to his thin body. Now you can see with your eyes that he is a great fighter and he is doing good in his career. As a next example you may take Cristiano Ronaldo as this person himself is a brand now.
There is a famous saying about Cristiano Ronaldo that if he touch something hardly then that company would fall even if it can be a huge company. Like a famous cold drink was once sideline by Ronaldo and then the shares of that company were fallen up to 5%.
In one interview of Cristiano Ronaldo he share story about his childhood how people use to hurt him for his face. People used to call his face ugly. Christiano Ronaldo did not reacted to them that time but now he is taking revenge. In revenge if someone from that time want to meet Ronaldo then he always say no or sometimes he gives appointment. Now think about the person who used to call him ugly and now wants to meet Cristiano Ronaldo. I would say this is the real Revenge which anyone could take in his life.
So friends instead of taking revenge from the persons who have ever hurted you in your life you should concentrate on your life and make it better. Mindset like taking revenge make you feel more harassed and demorilise you all the time. It is the best advice that you forget and forgive all the things which has happened in past whoever has hurted you. You should stop thinking about that person and you should concentrate to make your life better.
To overcome from the feeling of Revenge you may use the following methods to feel better:
1. Revise Your Experience with Someone
This is the best method to overcome from the feeling of Revenge and making your life better that you should tell your past experience is with someone. The someone could be your brother, sister or any person inside your family it may be your best friend also but you should think that that person must be your best friend and trustable. You should tell the whole thing to the person and telling the whole thing as it is remove the pressure on your mind to take revenge.
2. Work on Your Hobbies
Open people who are free all the time they have most of the time the feeling to take revenge. Instead of staying free all the time you should work on your hobbies or you may start any activity that activity can be dancing, making food or any other home project. If you are interested in making art then you may draw something on YouTube and you can earn money also. You may learn a new thing in your life if you are having everything.
3. Meditation
Friends meditation aur mindfulness is the best thing which we can give to our life to make it better. Meditation is a good habit which help us to concentrate in every field of our life. If you are a student then meditation can help you in studies you may learn things easily which are included in your syllabus. If you are working somewhere then it will increase the concentration so that you can work efficiently for long hours and it will get you more and more increments. Doing meditation daily is also helpful in removing all the mental illness or mental stress that come by meeting the irritating people who ever hurt you.
4. Do Exercise
When we do exercise daily our body starts to get tired. When we get tired we focus on our sleep and on our basic chores. If you do exercise daily than you can make yourself healthy as well as you will get new thoughts inside your mind. People who exercise daily have less chances to get mental illness and the reasons to take revenge type of things are most of the time due to mental illness which we feel when someone talk to us in a certain way which we don't like. So you should do exercise daily that will help you in overall health.
5. Read Success Stories
You should start reading books of successful people. Reading the books of successful people will help you to make your life better and you will understand the shortcuts which a person has written a book with the experience of his whole life so that book not only represent some pages that book represents the whole life of that person who has written that book or who has been mentioned in that book. So reading habit can be best for you to tackle the issues related to the person who has ever hurted you. When you start reading book you become 20% more smart than people all over the world.
6. Spend Time with Friends
If you remain alone all the time then you should make friendship you are not having any friends then you should spend some time with your friends. Gathering of friends often help us to release our stress. Human is a social animal without socialization a human cannot be happy. So you should start sitting inside your friends you can do a party or a simple gathering where you can talk or you may do your hobbies whatever you like. With your friends you may start playing again and that will result into ending the stress from your life. When you spend time with your friends you will forget about taking the Revenge with someone.
Last Lines:
Taking revenge from the person who has hurted you is a good thing but that Revenge should be your success. You should focus on your life and get succeed. This is the best Revenge you can give to that person who has ever hurt you. Giving someone an attack or pain is not a solution rather you can focus on your life and you can live a healthy and enjoy full life. It will make your life over all better and you will increase your confidence. Forget about the person who has hurted you and enjoy your life.